Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? Why would they choose to be, on the other hand, happy? What drives a person emotionally to make choices? That's a bit deep isn't it- because while you're thinking, "Dana you aren't making any sense here...," somewhere inside your heart, nonetheless, you know precisely the choices which you have made, and are making, and why- but perhaps, what you think is why you are making them, isn't really why, it is what you have told yourself you are going to believe! This is the toughest of self examination issues as we have a real strong tendency to gloss over - to push to a different than real level, the hard choices which we have to make. When you are in relationships which are good, you feel it, you don't have to think about it, you don't even have to put on any airs, just being with the person is so darn much fun that you can't hardly stand it, you want to be with them, because it's so much of a great time for you; it might be said that the relationship is good for you? Why then would you choose to walk away from such a relationship? "Dana do you really mean there are people who would walk away from joy?" Great point and the answer is, amazingly, yes, and they have the most amazing reasons for such that you've ever heard, but usually it boils down to their concern about their life and the future that they will have. This is interesting because the future, doesn't exist except in someone's imagination- just as the past has taken place and is over, and you cannot, as yet, go back there; and even if science does come up with some super space time travel machine, when you get back there, back there may not be the back there that you went through...so, geez, the past is a place of thought, for maybe lessons to be learned, but otherwise, it's useless. That leaves today- we get today, we get to choose to do good things, be with good people and enjoy life, today- or, we can choose some other courses of action, hoping that the future we envision will happen; nothing wrong with that, what is wrong, really, deadly wrong, is to force the present into unhappiness in your life based upon the myth of the past or the future- don't be the person that somebody would say "you idiot." to about a chance to enjoy something now that you passed up. Of course I'm a fine one to talk...
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