Need Versus Want

When we're young, youthful folks, we have energy, dynamic thinking, we view change as desirable, and we believe that we have time to get whatever we choose to accomplish, done.
 
Half way through the flight of life, we discover that the ticket really does have a cost, that we might not have calculated that cost in how we took our seat next to the window; we just started watching the runway fly bye.

After enough take offs and landings, we're used to the flight of life, and then we discover, we hadn't really known as much about that cost as we might've had we been smarter, wiser, more counseled instead of counselor.

When we're young we like relationships based on want, we see someone we want to know, we get to know them, it is pursuit, accomplishment and joy.  As we live a while longer, we begin to see that relationships do have a factor that involves what we need, rather than so much, want.

As the needs move on, and grow stronger and stronger, we then begin to realize - we have to enforce a lack of needy relationships in our life, if we don't, we will be totally drained of all energy, and; we will not only be unhappy, we will feel unfulfilled.  At some point we have to begin to ponder if we should be saying to someone "thanks, but, no thanks - I've got all the misery I need."


 

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It Makes Sense

As you are working on your network of contacts and people
that you communicate with; doesn't it also make sense to not
only enjoy the time you get to spend with them, but also to
use the technology to help you with the process? It is in the
using of the technology that we want to ask you if it doesn't
make good sense to keep track of things that matter to your
network connections.

We often speak of who, what, when, where, why/how as
the five W's of effective communications and networks, so that
who is involved, what and when they are involved and where
they are involved from, are all worth noting. When you can
note particulars about people and use the system to keep track
of those types of information, you can help those people feel
that you are connected to their lives. Such connection helps
them feel an interest in your behalf. By using the system you
can effectively help others with such effects. An example of
this is the birthday note which arrives in the email. While
most people aren't that excited about it, my sense is that it
is nice to receive a note saying "happy birthday."

If you've received such a note, maybe you'd like to contribute
to the overall learning of this group by saying if it was a good
experience? Hard to imagine it not being good? Until the
next get together, in a few days, let's think about how we
might use the technology we have to secure good stuff to
share with others...

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